If any action fails, the component returns it with sm:failed='1' on the
session element. We don't use the route type at all anymore, that is
reserved for _routing_ errors. This has the nice side effect of allowing
us to distinguish between "session ended" and "sm crashed".
No bounce must result from a failed action.
The namespace URL is "http://jabberd.jabberstudio.org/ns/session/1.0"
c2s->sm: start session
sm->c2s: session started
c2s->sm: end session
sm->c2s: session ended
c2s->sm: send packet
...
sm->c2s: send packet
...
c2s->sm: create user
sm->c2s: user created
c2s->sm: delete user
sm->c2s: user deleteed